Before this month's meeting we gave the girls a little quiz, to see which topics needed the most re-visiting. We were happy to see that for the most part, the girls were comfortable with how their bodies were changing, and knew what to expect. Whew! But we still wanted to revisit some issues relating to puberty and offer up another chance to talk about everything again. We especially wanted to talk about bras, what to do if you get your period at school, and shaving.
Here was our plan for the December meeting:
December TAGG meeting – the body changes/puberty talk
revisited!
Open with greeting each other, then a game based on Gobble
Turkey Gobble:
Choose one person to be “it” – this person picks up a tampon
or pad, and stands with their back to the group. She tosses it over her head (like a bride
tosses a bouquet at a wedding) and then says “Santa, are you coming this
year?” Whoever catches the pad has to say
“HO HO HO! Merry Christmas!” Then the tosser needs to guess who caught the
pad. Switch kids and repeat!
Next is Team Relays!
Divide the girls into 2 groups.
1) Grab a bra and
some pads. Shoot 10 pads through the air
using the bra like a slingshot – the pads must travel at least 10 feet (count
it out by ten big steps). Each person on
your team must shoot at least 1 pad.
Count out loud up to 10 and then gather up your pads. Turn in 10 pads to Michelle to get your next
task.
[The idea here was to get the girls comfortable with handling bras and pads.]
[The idea here was to get the girls comfortable with handling bras and pads.]
2) Choose one member of your team to be the “Period Princess” – dress her up using a combination of toilet paper, streamers, pads/tampons, and tape. When she’s finished, parade her around the room, and be sure to have Alicia snap a picture.
[Again, a silly way to get comfortable handing tampons and pads.]
Moms walk through the room with their purses. Each purse has a ziplock baggie hanging from the OUTSIDE
of their purse, or taped to the outside of the purse – baggies will have pads, tampons, underwear in
them. So awful and embarrassing! Only Alicia will have nothing
hanging on the outside – she’ll have a “period pouch” discretely tucked into
her purse. We’ll have kids guess “which
one of these is not like the others” – then have Alicia show the “period
pouch" -- a small, drawstring pouch that Alicia and her girls made from fun fabrics!
3) Each girl should
choose a “period pouch” and fill it with necessary items – a couple of pads and extra “underwear”
(construction paper underwear—to be replaced with real underwear at home). Once you have your pouches filled, make up a
list of new names for the “period pouch,” and then make up a little
advertisement/jingle for this new creation.
Sit down quietly and raise your hands when your team is ready. Make sure to practice a couple of times.
[Now hopefully the girls feel not so scared about what to do if their first period comes while they are at school -- we also talked about what to do, who they could ask for help, etc.]
[Now hopefully the girls feel not so scared about what to do if their first period comes while they are at school -- we also talked about what to do, who they could ask for help, etc.]
4) Each girl grabs an
orange and gets ready to shave it. Each
team will have 1 can of shaving cream and a few razors. With a volunteer mom’s assistance, each girl
should shave an orange – being careful not to zest the orange! – light pressure
please!
[We're thinking that some girls might feel ready to shave their legs in the next year, and wanted to get them comfortable with shaving -- not that they have to start anytime soon, but in case they want to. One girl already had! And she shared her experience with us, too.]
[We're thinking that some girls might feel ready to shave their legs in the next year, and wanted to get them comfortable with shaving -- not that they have to start anytime soon, but in case they want to. One girl already had! And she shared her experience with us, too.]
5) While you’re waiting for others to shave their oranges, write down a few questions – about body development, puberty, questions you might have, things you want to know but might be embarrassed to ask. Write your question on a note card and fold it in half to keep it secret. When your team has at least 7 questions, count out loud up to 7 (or higher) and deliver questions to Tricia. She will give you supplies for the next activity.
[We like to provide opportunity for the girls to anonymously ask questions, so there's no embarrassment! And it's always interesting to see how many girls have the SAME question!]
*We ran out of time for this next one, but it sounds hilarious, so we'll save it for another time.
6) Water color tampon painting is next! Grab a few different size tampons, glasses of water/food coloring/watercolor paints. Unwrap tampons, dip them in water, and use them to paint a masterpiece – no finger painting or brushes allowed! When your painting is done, hold it up for all to see, and make sure Alicia takes pictures.
6) Water color tampon painting is next! Grab a few different size tampons, glasses of water/food coloring/watercolor paints. Unwrap tampons, dip them in water, and use them to paint a masterpiece – no finger painting or brushes allowed! When your painting is done, hold it up for all to see, and make sure Alicia takes pictures.
Snack time! Pretzels,
popcorn, carrots & dip, and mini-candy canes!
While we’re having snack, we’ll go through the teams’
questions, discuss some of the activities we’ve done, etc.
Here's what we had planned:
A couple groups of Moms will perform a sample skit –
something about a girl getting her period, needing assistance, and friends
coming to help her. The skits must be 1)
creative, 2) discrete when dealing with the issue, and 3) show girls supporting
each other in a caring way. Of course
they can be funny, too! The skits are
designed to show the girls that all women can think of each other as sisters –
and look for ways to support & help each other.